Hiring a private investigator to catch a cheating boyfriend/girlfriend
Do you get the feeling your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you? The feeling can be all-consuming and mind-wrenching. You might not know where to turn, and you might consider hiring a private investigator to catch your cheating boyfriend or girlfriend. Before you do, you should consider the following:
- Are you sure they’re cheating? If it’s just a suspicion, or a rumor someone started then you might want to hold off on spending the money it will take to hire a private investigator. Pay attention to signs that they might be cheating. A comprehensive list of signs of cheating can be found here, but here are some pointers:
- Are they ignoring what you say?
- Do they often walk away in anger?
- Do they avoid talking to you?
- Do they refuse to answer questions you ask?
- Do they accuse you of cheating to avoid talking?
- Do they act passive-aggressively to avoid the subject?
- There are other more obvious signs you might see such as:
- They are suddenly unreachable at certain times of the day or night
- They won’t share their passwords with you
- They sneak away to make phone calls or texts
- They start being less visible on social media
- If they show you their phone it’s obvious stuff has been deleted
Maybe you have some actual factual proof? Maybe a truly trusted friend said they saw your lover with someone else. If you truly can trust your friend then you should probably follow up on the lead and hire a private investigator to catch them cheating.
A private investigator can help you sort through your suspicions and can help you determine whether your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating. Suspicions are dangerous because you won’t be able to make a rational decision if your thoughts are being driven by suspicions. You won’t know where to turn next because you don’t have any facts to go on.
A private investigator can:
- Monitor your lover to see if they are where they say they are
- Provide feedback to you on their activities to see if they’re being truthful
- Investigate their social media profiles
- Conduct cellular forensics on their computers
- Retrieve deleted data from their cell phones
- Watch the person you suspect they’re cheating with to see if they interact
Having a cheating partner is a frustrating scenario. You should also think about whether it would be actually worth it to hire a private investigator to catch a cheating partner. If they’re cheating today, what will stop them from cheating tomorrow? If they’re lying to you today, what will stop them from lying to you tomorrow? Or next week? Or next year? You might be better off just cutting the ties now to save yourself the pain in the future.
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