How to Deal with an Anonymous Affair Tip
You just got an anonymous email stating that your spouse is having an affair. Your blood is boiling and your hands are shaking. But how can you tell if this tip means you’ve got a cheating spouse, vs. if someone is just out to cause trouble for you and your partner?
First of all, did your new “friend” deliver any kind of verifiable information? If they gave you information you can check for a fact–such as where your partner “really” is when he or she says they are staying late at work on Thursdays–then this is easy enough to check. If that fact checks out, then you should definitely ask what else they know!
Is My Intuition Telling Me that My Spouse is Cheating? Or is it Saying Something Else?
You should always trust your intuition. Always. Your intuition gives you clues to things that you just can’t put your finger on–yet. If you’re reading this, it’s probably because you have an intuition that you may have a cheating spouse.
But sometimes it’s hard to figure out just exactly WHAT our intuition is telling us–especially in matters of the heart. That’s because intuition is partly an emotional response. Our other emotional responses can get tied up with our intuition–especially when our emotions run strong. This can throw anybody for a little spin (or a big one).